Tag: domestic violence

• No Say

  When I was born, my parents sought the help of a Chinese naming expert to give me an appropriate Chinese name. Neither of them spoke mandarin particularly well – a legacy of their unique family histories . Even through my Father came from a Chinese speaking family, his father decided not to “put all the…

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  September 27, 2021

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  Chinese names, christianity, domestic violence, emotional abuse, Healing, identity, Relationship, The Holy Spirit, traditional mandarin

• Epitaph

  As if life wasn’t hard enoughYou and I danced a beautifulDance of dysfunction As I look backThere were all these signsBut why did I ignore them? Was it because I wasDrawn to the fireAs a moth is drawn toThe flame? You told me life was preciousBut you didn’t knowJust how precious it wasUntil you walked…

  meowmeowproject

  August 13, 2021

  christianity, communication, domestic violence, Gender roles, Healing, life, Love, Marriage, Psychology, Relationship, religion, self-knowledge, soul

  authenticity, Broken homes, Childhood trauma, christianity, codependency, conformity, contested divorce, covert abuse, deception, delusion, divorce, domestic violence, emotional abuse, femininity, gaslighting, identity, lies, loneliness, Love, Marriage, niceness, perception, personality, Psychology, Relationship, sadness, traps, victim blaming

• How Do I Let Go?

  How do I let goOf someone that was never thereA person that was not realA conceptI fell in love with And did 10 yearsOf my life with? Flesh and bloodDust specks all aroundHe sat in frontOf the computer screen He was mineMine to holdMine to loveMine to touch I was hisHis to useHis to plunderHis…

  meowmeowproject

  August 8, 2021

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  abuse, authenticity, Broken homes, codependency, contested divorce, covert abuse, deception, delusion, divorce, domestic violence, emotional abuse, femininity, gaslighting, identity, narcissism, Relationship, relationships, sadness, traps, victim blaming